He is one that is truly deserving of the treasure the right woman
brings to a man’s heart. He must become the ‘Kind of man’ that can accommodate her, I mean all of her. This is not the quality you find with
a common man.
First, when the word ‘man’ is to be defined, aside that he has a male
gender, the next imagery that comes to mind is ‘responsibility’. To
‘man-up’ is to take ‘responsibilty’ for a situation. So to be a man
involves the ability to take responsibility, but to be the Kind Of Man
for the right woman is to take responsibility for a perculiar situation;
the woman herself. Yes, I am also part of those men that think a woman
is a situation, even very difficult one at that. They represent
something men would rather avoid. Let’s see why.
A man is a simpler creature. He is used to direct, unequivocal and unambiguous expression; something I will confess a woman is not. With his emotions, a few words can suffice when he describes it. When he speaks his heart, he is clearly understood. It is not his way to hide the way he feels with long storytelling or detective logic. Best of all, the way he says it is exactly how he feels it. This is what makes a woman completely differently.
With her, commands, statements and even the tone of voice carries more meaning that occupies the ears. Instead of use words to share their emotions, they would rather you felt it yourself to really understand them. When she speaks her heart, her words says little and then she expects you to know the whole story. She hides her anger, frustrations, discomfort or whatever she feels in her environment and then she expects that you need look around her and decipher the way she feels. I am not here saying women are built with poor abilities to communicate. Their level of communication is just beyond the man most times. They are more complex than men are. This is a situation for any man. And the Kind Of Man is the one rising up to it.
Men can hardly show patience with the way a woman chooses to express anger, jealousy, pain and sometimes love. We want it in plain words, simple for the imagination to process and use of choice words to represent the whole idea. This is why a misunderstanding occurs between the sexes most times. Have you ever wondered why while a man is looking for a supportive woman as a top quality in his women, a woman is looking for an understanding man? This means that few men can be responsible enough to understand the way she comunicates. And when she finds this man that can truly understand her, she has found love.
We may utter the same verbal words but we speak the language of the heart differently. To rise up then to the situation is to learn the language in your woman’s heart and learn to communicate with her at this level. Phew! I must confess this task is not easy. Must the man forsake his nature to learn the woman’s nature? Yes, if he wants to be the Kind Of Man to any woman. Why can’t she understand him instead? Because it shows you lack respect for her nature, a deeply entrenched part of her being. It also means you do not accept her entirely. If you reason that you do not need this wisdom, you can hardly become the Kind Of Man a woman dreams of. Lazy men prefer to avoid it all together. Insecure men try to impose the woman to understand him instead. And this draws the man farther away from being the ideal man for any woman.
Are you a man that thinks he can reach his woman’s heart with gifts. Such bribery will not work. It’s just like a man who spends longer hours at work because he is avoiding trouble with his spouse. He is bribing time to avoid the situation. He must still face what he avoids, sooner or later, though. So, don’t think you can by-pass this in any way. Sooner or later, you will be confronted with the issue of communication with your woman.
A woman responds more to emotional stimulus than physical stimulus. Infact, its the surest way of motivating her to love and respect you. If you think provisions and gifts will do it all in pleasing your woman, you are just unequivocally announcing your irresponsibility for her emotional needs. So, we must face this reality and the sooner the better.How a man learns the language of a woman’s heart is something I can hardly explain with its abstruse intricacies. But then, I have come to learn this one element that has helped men succeed. That is showing a deep interest in how she feels. When you communicate with your woman always with this awareness; being eager and ready to discern her feelings, this will begin to form practical wisdom for you in the way that you can stimulate her emotionally.
This is what it means for a man to gain the ability to speak the language of his woman’s heart. He is able to perceive her emotional needs and has become adept at going about to fulfil them. He learns patience because instead of judge the things she says, he understands the way she feels instead. With his woman, this is the begining of wisdom and a portal to her immeasurable love well. He accepts error, apologises and corrects himself because he understands her nagging is a sign of love not a judgement on his personality. This understanding about her motivates her spirit to a high emotional state of love. This is very important because a woman finds it easier to love a man who is constantly filling up her emotional tank with only good things.
He understands his woman needs her value and importance to be constantly appraised the same way you water flowers often so that it will grow. This will enable her to blossom into an amazing woman capable of giving so much even beyond her capacity if needs be. A man should know that for every value he gives his woman, she feels motivated to return twice as much value to him. It is the woman’s natural bent to love and trust me, this capacity to express love to the man that has proved worthy is superfluously beyond reckoning.
He understands that nothing can be more important when his woman desires to talk. If she knows that you value the opportunity to peer into her heart, she automatically believes you deserve every love and respect she is capable of. If the man can show by the way he pays attention to the things she says that she is very important to him, she scores him loads of points. Believe me, women can be such generous score givers when you know how to motivate them.
He does not need to hear the woman say her emotional state because he is constantly perceiving this. He watches out for patterns that defines her every emotional state. If he could hear before she speaks, act before she requests, give before she asks, promise before she doubts, provide before she lacks, why wouldn’t she believe that he is indeed the best thing she could ever ask for? The Kind Of Man strengthens her before she has the chance to slack into weakness. He rejuvenates her before her spirit could lower. She always feel loved because he understands the words that are used to communicate love in her language and he speaks it often to her.
When a woman agrees that she belongs to a man, she has signed her soul to him to take responsibility for. It would be poor thinking to expect the man assume that his woman can take care of herself, especially where emotional things are concerned. Her pain and love is his responsibility. The Kind Of Man knows he must always ameliorate the pains and amplify the love. The Kind Of Man knows that her soul must be nourished constantly and be protected from anything that is negative or damaging to her emotional state. The Kind Of Man knows nothing she says or does is insignificant or could be ignored. The kind Of Man must constantly prove to his woman that no matter what, he is there for her to fall back to.
He must make her believe that his arms is the only place she can run back to because he makes everything bad become good, the things unbearable become pleasant and the things hurting to become soothing. All this is possible if he becomes skillful in the language of his woman’s heart. With the language, he becomes a part of her world, seeing through her eyes and feeling the things she feels through his own skin. Her world becomes as real the way his flesh and blood are to him.
For the common man, is the task of learning the language of a woman’s heart daunting? Definitely yes! So man-up! Do not expect so much of a woman if you are not manning-up to the situation i.e. her. When you conquer your nature to give for the understanding of your woman, you have won not only your woman’s love but her respect also. The man taking good responsibility of his house gains the respect of his household. So also, the man taking good responsibility of his woman’s soul gains the respect of the woman.
First, when the word ‘man’ is to be defined, aside that he has a male
gender, the next imagery that comes to mind is ‘responsibility’. To
‘man-up’ is to take ‘responsibilty’ for a situation. So to be a man
involves the ability to take responsibility, but to be the Kind Of Man
for the right woman is to take responsibility for a perculiar situation;
the woman herself. Yes, I am also part of those men that think a woman
is a situation, even very difficult one at that. They represent
something men would rather avoid. Let’s see why.A man is a simpler creature. He is used to direct, unequivocal and unambiguous expression; something I will confess a woman is not. With his emotions, a few words can suffice when he describes it. When he speaks his heart, he is clearly understood. It is not his way to hide the way he feels with long storytelling or detective logic. Best of all, the way he says it is exactly how he feels it. This is what makes a woman completely differently.
With her, commands, statements and even the tone of voice carries more meaning that occupies the ears. Instead of use words to share their emotions, they would rather you felt it yourself to really understand them. When she speaks her heart, her words says little and then she expects you to know the whole story. She hides her anger, frustrations, discomfort or whatever she feels in her environment and then she expects that you need look around her and decipher the way she feels. I am not here saying women are built with poor abilities to communicate. Their level of communication is just beyond the man most times. They are more complex than men are. This is a situation for any man. And the Kind Of Man is the one rising up to it.
Men can hardly show patience with the way a woman chooses to express anger, jealousy, pain and sometimes love. We want it in plain words, simple for the imagination to process and use of choice words to represent the whole idea. This is why a misunderstanding occurs between the sexes most times. Have you ever wondered why while a man is looking for a supportive woman as a top quality in his women, a woman is looking for an understanding man? This means that few men can be responsible enough to understand the way she comunicates. And when she finds this man that can truly understand her, she has found love.
We may utter the same verbal words but we speak the language of the heart differently. To rise up then to the situation is to learn the language in your woman’s heart and learn to communicate with her at this level. Phew! I must confess this task is not easy. Must the man forsake his nature to learn the woman’s nature? Yes, if he wants to be the Kind Of Man to any woman. Why can’t she understand him instead? Because it shows you lack respect for her nature, a deeply entrenched part of her being. It also means you do not accept her entirely. If you reason that you do not need this wisdom, you can hardly become the Kind Of Man a woman dreams of. Lazy men prefer to avoid it all together. Insecure men try to impose the woman to understand him instead. And this draws the man farther away from being the ideal man for any woman.
Are you a man that thinks he can reach his woman’s heart with gifts. Such bribery will not work. It’s just like a man who spends longer hours at work because he is avoiding trouble with his spouse. He is bribing time to avoid the situation. He must still face what he avoids, sooner or later, though. So, don’t think you can by-pass this in any way. Sooner or later, you will be confronted with the issue of communication with your woman.
A woman responds more to emotional stimulus than physical stimulus. Infact, its the surest way of motivating her to love and respect you. If you think provisions and gifts will do it all in pleasing your woman, you are just unequivocally announcing your irresponsibility for her emotional needs. So, we must face this reality and the sooner the better.How a man learns the language of a woman’s heart is something I can hardly explain with its abstruse intricacies. But then, I have come to learn this one element that has helped men succeed. That is showing a deep interest in how she feels. When you communicate with your woman always with this awareness; being eager and ready to discern her feelings, this will begin to form practical wisdom for you in the way that you can stimulate her emotionally.
This is what it means for a man to gain the ability to speak the language of his woman’s heart. He is able to perceive her emotional needs and has become adept at going about to fulfil them. He learns patience because instead of judge the things she says, he understands the way she feels instead. With his woman, this is the begining of wisdom and a portal to her immeasurable love well. He accepts error, apologises and corrects himself because he understands her nagging is a sign of love not a judgement on his personality. This understanding about her motivates her spirit to a high emotional state of love. This is very important because a woman finds it easier to love a man who is constantly filling up her emotional tank with only good things.
He understands his woman needs her value and importance to be constantly appraised the same way you water flowers often so that it will grow. This will enable her to blossom into an amazing woman capable of giving so much even beyond her capacity if needs be. A man should know that for every value he gives his woman, she feels motivated to return twice as much value to him. It is the woman’s natural bent to love and trust me, this capacity to express love to the man that has proved worthy is superfluously beyond reckoning.
He understands that nothing can be more important when his woman desires to talk. If she knows that you value the opportunity to peer into her heart, she automatically believes you deserve every love and respect she is capable of. If the man can show by the way he pays attention to the things she says that she is very important to him, she scores him loads of points. Believe me, women can be such generous score givers when you know how to motivate them.
He does not need to hear the woman say her emotional state because he is constantly perceiving this. He watches out for patterns that defines her every emotional state. If he could hear before she speaks, act before she requests, give before she asks, promise before she doubts, provide before she lacks, why wouldn’t she believe that he is indeed the best thing she could ever ask for? The Kind Of Man strengthens her before she has the chance to slack into weakness. He rejuvenates her before her spirit could lower. She always feel loved because he understands the words that are used to communicate love in her language and he speaks it often to her.
When a woman agrees that she belongs to a man, she has signed her soul to him to take responsibility for. It would be poor thinking to expect the man assume that his woman can take care of herself, especially where emotional things are concerned. Her pain and love is his responsibility. The Kind Of Man knows he must always ameliorate the pains and amplify the love. The Kind Of Man knows that her soul must be nourished constantly and be protected from anything that is negative or damaging to her emotional state. The Kind Of Man knows nothing she says or does is insignificant or could be ignored. The kind Of Man must constantly prove to his woman that no matter what, he is there for her to fall back to.
He must make her believe that his arms is the only place she can run back to because he makes everything bad become good, the things unbearable become pleasant and the things hurting to become soothing. All this is possible if he becomes skillful in the language of his woman’s heart. With the language, he becomes a part of her world, seeing through her eyes and feeling the things she feels through his own skin. Her world becomes as real the way his flesh and blood are to him.
For the common man, is the task of learning the language of a woman’s heart daunting? Definitely yes! So man-up! Do not expect so much of a woman if you are not manning-up to the situation i.e. her. When you conquer your nature to give for the understanding of your woman, you have won not only your woman’s love but her respect also. The man taking good responsibility of his house gains the respect of his household. So also, the man taking good responsibility of his woman’s soul gains the respect of the woman.
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