Here is an exercise.
A Rose is beautiful. We love them for this. A man is tempted to be close to a Rose to perceive all its beauty. I have often seen men show great affection to Roses. The bloom of a Rose is such that evokes feelings of tenderness and appreciation. A Rose delicate form begs for the hands to handle affectionately. When we gain possession of a Rose, it is with utmost care that it does not come to any harm. A Rose is the adoration of the man’s eyes and the softening of his heart. A Rose is a bundle of romance. Which man is not dying to share in the love around a Rose?
The words above rings true doesn’t it? Now, the exercise; replace the
word “Rose” with “Lady” and read it through. Does it ring more true in
this instance? Everyman will answer in the affirmative though,
especially if he has fallen-in-love once in his life. The point then of
the exercise is this: Every girl is a rose to all men if she realises her potentials as a lady.
Why did I choose to address an article in this manner? Because I recently heard one of the biggest lies ever and I want to address it. A certain female friend said to me, “Segun, no boy really likes me. I doubt any one will appreciate or even fall in love with me. This kind of stuff was made for my friends not me.” Well, truth be told, she does not look beautiful to say the least. That she will also never be appreciated or loved…ohhh, what balderdash! The fact that she is a girl means she will always find a boy who would love and appreciate her. I am not saying, “Not to worry. One day, a boy who is probably as bad looking and has terrible taste in women will definitely come your way. Then, you will be free to be loved and appreciated.” What I am saying is that she can have any boy that she desires if she knows what she is and the potential that lies inside.
Girls are designed to be beautiful and attractive to boys. Why do many girls fail to achieve this? Many girls forsake their nature that’s why. The beauty of a girl does not jump out from the face or skin but from the potential in the heart. What is this potential? How would every girl discover it? The biggest clue is in the difference in the physical make-up of boys and girls.
Nearing maturity, a man gain more muscular features while a woman predominates in fat. I reason that such differences occur to give the different sexes power to their natural abilities. For example, the muscle is tough and generates more energy. This will enable him to deal with tasking circumstances gracefully. The woman’s fat is soft and generates less energy. Her design is therefore not the same with a man. Have you ever tried to dent on a muscled arm with a finger? You will notice that the dent takes time to recover to the initial form. But if you tried to dent a fat arm, the recovery is instant. The fat is a better shock absorber than the muscle. You see then her softness can become something he is desiring,if she knows how exactly.
The fat man and the muscled woman does not change the facts established about their nature by design. They are rather a hard core design of their sexes and even the fat man will be acting in the manner of the muscled man and the muscled woman will be acting in the manner of the fat woman. When a woman realises that the toughness of the man does not beg contesting but desires for the softness that is her nature, she will understand how to show her beauty to him from the heart.
To the man belongs power, headship, control, responsibility, and labor. If a woman allows him all these by adding more grease to his power, easing his headship as a good neck, making control graceful as shepherding sheeps, his responsibilty is seasoned with her compliments, and labour tendered with her sincere appreciation, she has gained great appeal in his eyes. To the woman who knows how to make a man dispense his fears, assure him his values, muster inside him boldness and encourage him to perform his duties, she becomes something desirable to his eyes. The woman who knows her soft nature could condition the man’s soul with gentility, grace, sympathy,affection,respect and subjection to his natural powers has gained his undying love.
These lessons are a wining combination for any woman who wants to gain the devotion and honor of her husband. It is also the formula that every young girl can use to gain the “Rose” adulation as a “Lady” with any boy.
To be continued…
Place your comments, and check out for the next part of this article, titled; Roses 2. tomorrow.
WRITTEN BY SEGUN PETERS
A Rose is beautiful. We love them for this. A man is tempted to be close to a Rose to perceive all its beauty. I have often seen men show great affection to Roses. The bloom of a Rose is such that evokes feelings of tenderness and appreciation. A Rose delicate form begs for the hands to handle affectionately. When we gain possession of a Rose, it is with utmost care that it does not come to any harm. A Rose is the adoration of the man’s eyes and the softening of his heart. A Rose is a bundle of romance. Which man is not dying to share in the love around a Rose?
The words above rings true doesn’t it? Now, the exercise; replace the
word “Rose” with “Lady” and read it through. Does it ring more true in
this instance? Everyman will answer in the affirmative though,
especially if he has fallen-in-love once in his life. The point then of
the exercise is this: Every girl is a rose to all men if she realises her potentials as a lady.Why did I choose to address an article in this manner? Because I recently heard one of the biggest lies ever and I want to address it. A certain female friend said to me, “Segun, no boy really likes me. I doubt any one will appreciate or even fall in love with me. This kind of stuff was made for my friends not me.” Well, truth be told, she does not look beautiful to say the least. That she will also never be appreciated or loved…ohhh, what balderdash! The fact that she is a girl means she will always find a boy who would love and appreciate her. I am not saying, “Not to worry. One day, a boy who is probably as bad looking and has terrible taste in women will definitely come your way. Then, you will be free to be loved and appreciated.” What I am saying is that she can have any boy that she desires if she knows what she is and the potential that lies inside.
Girls are designed to be beautiful and attractive to boys. Why do many girls fail to achieve this? Many girls forsake their nature that’s why. The beauty of a girl does not jump out from the face or skin but from the potential in the heart. What is this potential? How would every girl discover it? The biggest clue is in the difference in the physical make-up of boys and girls.
Nearing maturity, a man gain more muscular features while a woman predominates in fat. I reason that such differences occur to give the different sexes power to their natural abilities. For example, the muscle is tough and generates more energy. This will enable him to deal with tasking circumstances gracefully. The woman’s fat is soft and generates less energy. Her design is therefore not the same with a man. Have you ever tried to dent on a muscled arm with a finger? You will notice that the dent takes time to recover to the initial form. But if you tried to dent a fat arm, the recovery is instant. The fat is a better shock absorber than the muscle. You see then her softness can become something he is desiring,if she knows how exactly.
The fat man and the muscled woman does not change the facts established about their nature by design. They are rather a hard core design of their sexes and even the fat man will be acting in the manner of the muscled man and the muscled woman will be acting in the manner of the fat woman. When a woman realises that the toughness of the man does not beg contesting but desires for the softness that is her nature, she will understand how to show her beauty to him from the heart.
To the man belongs power, headship, control, responsibility, and labor. If a woman allows him all these by adding more grease to his power, easing his headship as a good neck, making control graceful as shepherding sheeps, his responsibilty is seasoned with her compliments, and labour tendered with her sincere appreciation, she has gained great appeal in his eyes. To the woman who knows how to make a man dispense his fears, assure him his values, muster inside him boldness and encourage him to perform his duties, she becomes something desirable to his eyes. The woman who knows her soft nature could condition the man’s soul with gentility, grace, sympathy,affection,respect and subjection to his natural powers has gained his undying love.
These lessons are a wining combination for any woman who wants to gain the devotion and honor of her husband. It is also the formula that every young girl can use to gain the “Rose” adulation as a “Lady” with any boy.
To be continued…
Place your comments, and check out for the next part of this article, titled; Roses 2. tomorrow.
WRITTEN BY SEGUN PETERS
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